HELLO...

I THOUGHT OF EACH OF YOU WHEN I READ THE IMMEDIATELY FOLLOWING MESSAGE. 
TO YOU FROM ME... I IMPLORE YOU TO LIVE NOW IN EACH MOMENT, AS THOUGH
YOU WILL NEVER GET THE CHANCE TO REPEAT IT.  LIFE IS A JOURNEY... A TRIP...
WE PASS THROUGH EACH INCIDENT BUT ONCE... SET YOUR MIND AND HEART TO MAKE
THE MOST OF THE TRIP... ESPECIALLY AS IT INVOLVES THOSE YOU LOVE AND CARE
ABOUT.  I HAVE ALTERED THE MESSAGE TO SAY WHAT I WOULD SAY TO YOU AND
ANYONE ELSE WHO MIGHT LISTEN.

I HAVE HAD TOO MUCH EXPERIENCE WITH THIS SUBJECT AND I KNOW... I KNOW.

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Subject: YOU... NOW... (altered by DRS) [;-)]

A man opened his wife's underwear drawer and picked up a silk paper wrapped
package:
"This, - he said - isn't any ordinary package."  He unwrapped the box and stared at
both the silk paper and the box.

"She got this the first time we went to New York  , 8 or 9 years ago. She has never
put it on... was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is it. He got near
the bed and placed the gift box next to the other clothing he was taking to the funeral
parlor... his wife had just died. He turned to me and said:

"Never save something for a special occasion.
Every day in your life is a special occasion".


I considered all of this... now I read more; pay more attention; take greater care;
Sit and rest without worrying about anything;
Spend more time with family, and less being driven by work;
And apply my experiences to take care of me so that I can take care of and for
others.

I understand that life should be a source of experience to be lived... participating...
not just surviving... No longer keeping anything just for special occasions. 
Use the best of anything I have that can be useful in any day...
Wear the clothes that suit me anyplace I desire to wear them...
They are simply things to be used...
LIFE IS TO BE LIVED... AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE... DO WHAT YOU CAN
FOR YOU AND THOSE YOU LOVE AND WHO LOVE YOU.

Don't save special things for special occasions, Use it whenever you want to. The
words "Someday" and "One Day" need to fade away from your vocabulary. If it's
worth seeing, listening to or doing... see, listen or do it now... as soon as you can...
I don't know what the man's wife would have done if she knew she wouldn't be there
the next morning, this nobody can tell...

If it were me I would call relatives and closest friends... (and I have been doing that)
make peace over any unresolved issues... (and I am trying to do that)
enjoy favorite food... and favorite people... AND WHATEVER ELSE LEGALLY
AND MORALLY AVAILABLE TO ME.

IT'S THE SMALL THINGS THAT I  REGRET NOT DOING WITH MY LOVED
ONES WHEN I HAD THE CHANCE.

I would regret it now because I would no longer see the friends I would meet, talk
with and enjoy... nor write letters that I wanted to write...

I would regret and feel sad, because I didn't say to my special someone, my
brothers and sisters, sons and daughters... not times enough at least... HOW MUCH
I LOVE THEM!!!

Now, I try not to delay, postpone or keep anything that could bring laughter and joy
into our lives... And, on each morning, I say to myself that this IS a special day...
Each day, each hour, each minute, is special.


I send you this because I CARE FOR YOU VERY MUCH!!! 
SEIZE THE TIME TO LIVE NOW AS BEST YOU CAN WHEREVER YOU ARE...
MAKE NOW ALWAYS THE MOST PRECIOUS TIME. NOW WILL NEVER COME
AGAIN... Remember that "One day" is far away... or might never come... for you
and that special someone!!!  It's already too late for me and some very special
people that have been in my life...

PLEASE DO NOT LET IT BE TOO LATE FOR YOU!

IT HAS ALREADY BEEN TOO LATE FOR THOSE IN THE STATISTICS THAT
FOLLOW;
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LOCAL NEWS SOURCES...
DEATHS IN LONDON FROM BLASTS - 55
DEATHS IN IRAQ - DAILY - CIVILIANS,
    WOMEN AND CHILDREN INCLUDED - MULTIPLE THOUSANDS
DEATHS IN ISRAEL - SOMETIMES DAILY - CIVILIANS,
    WOMEN AND CHILDREN INCLUDED - FAR, FAR TOO MANY
ALL OF THESE DEATHS PERPETRATED BY RELIGIOUS ZEALOTS
BELIEVING THAT THEY ARE BLOWING THEMSELVES INTO A
SPECIAL HEAVEN BECAUSE THEY SACRIFICE THEIR LIVES IN
ORDER TO KILL OTHERS THAT THEY HAVE BEEN TAUGHT ARE THEIR
ENEMIES.  ISAAC AND ISHMAEL ARE STILL AT IT JUST AS PREDICTED.
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PoliceOne.com, 07/16/05
OFFICER DOWN

Calif. helicopter crash under investigation; two sheriff's deputies killed - 07/14/2005
Joseph Kievernagel - [Sacramento, California]
Sheriff's Deputies Killed In Accident - 07/14/2005
Kevin Blount - [Sacramento, California]
N.Y. State police officer dies on job - 07/13/2005
Thomas M. O'Neill - [Islip, New York]
Tenn. State Trooper struck and killed by tractor-trailer - 07/08/2005
Todd M. Larkins - [Dickson, Tennessee]
Deputy dies after ATV accident - 07/08/2005
Kenneth Wade Cook - [Cedar Valley, Utah]
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WATERBORNE@AOL.COM and Captain Mike Williams, Chatanooga, TN, PD
Texas: All 4 shots hit deputy from behind, report says. Witness tells police the victim
wasn't warned.  http://www.chron.com/cs/CDA/rssstory.mpl/metropolitan/3263922

Florida
: Cop shot in Tampa overnight.
http://www.tampabays10.com/news/news.aspx?storyid=15976

Pennsylvania: The father-in-law of slain Easton police Officer Jesse Sollman along
with several other police officers plan to urge Easton City Council on Wednesday to
pay for the fallen officer's funeral.
http://www.phillyburbs.com/pb-dyn/news/103-07112005-512923.html

Arizona: Prison officer killed over drug debt.
http://www.azcentral.com/arizonarepublic/local/articles/0712phx-murder12.html

<>Los Angeles: Grieving Police Provide Account of Fatal Standoff...
http://www.sun-sentinel.com/news/nationworld/la-me-shooting12jul12,0,184333.story?coll=sfla-newsnation-front
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VIRGINIAN-PILOT, 07/16/05
IRAQ, WEEK JULY 9-15
U.S. TROOPS KILLED - 9
COALITION TROOPS KILLED - 1 ITALIAN
U.S. TROOPS WOUNDED - 102
U.S. TROOPS KILLED SINCE 03/03 - 1761
U.S. TROOPS WOUNDED SINCE 03/03 - 13,438

AFGHANISTAN
TWO VIRGINIA NATIONAL GUARD UNITS HOME FROM AFGHANISTAN

U.S. TROOPS KILLED IN AFGHANISTAN - OVER 200
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Washingtonpost.com

Killed U.S. Soldier Found Purpose in Military
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Franklin Parish Sheriff's Department Louisiana, (from a fellow Peace Keeper)
Sergeant Regelio (Roy) Gonzales
End of Watch: Friday, July 15, 2005
Age: 47
Tour of Duty: 9 yr
Incident Details
Cause of Death: Gunfire, Friday, July 15, 2005
Suspect Info: Shot and killed
Sergeant Gonzales was shot and killed when he and three other deputies investigated reports of a 
man shooting at an airplane. The pilot of the crop-duster had reported the incident to the sheriff's 
department and identified the home where the shots were fired from.

When the deputies arrived at the scene they encountered the homeowner, who was armed with 
several firearms. When the deputies ordered the man to drop his weapons he opened fire, killing 
Sergeant Gonzales and slightly wounding one of the other deputies. The deputies returned fire, 
killing the suspect.

One of the deputies involved in the shooting was the son of Assistant Chief Bill Linder of the 
Wisner, Louisiana, Police Department, who was shot and killed in the line of duty 10 months 
earlier.

Sergeant Gonzales is survived by his wife and son.
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CALIBREPRESS.COM 
STREET SURVIVAL NEWSLINE NO. 758

Off-duty encounter with on-duty officers is often the most dangerous

During the first six months of this year, four of the 28 officers killed by gunfire were off duty at the 
time of the shootings, a statistic that underscores the need for vigilance when working extra jobs 
or traveling this summer. 

Calibre Press Street Survival Seminar instructors say officers should remember that if they find 
themselves in situations where they have to take action off duty, they must follow the directives 
of uniformed personnel as they arrive on the scene being careful to clearly identify themselves 
as police officers.

This week, Newsline joins the Houston area law enforcement community in mourning the loss
of a reserve deputy constable who was killed on his extra-duty job July 6th by a Harris County 
deputy sheriff who mistook him for an escaping felon.

(PLEASE GO TO WEBSITE FOR REST OF THE STORY. Calibrepress.com)
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VERY INTERESTING INFO FOLLOWS:

Washingtonpost.com

Data Show Scourge of Hospital Infections
Very interesting read... VITAL INFO

PoliceOne.com, week 238, vol 2

Naked Suspects: No Laughing Matter
Two articles about dealing with naked suspects from  The Force Science Research Center
When you're dispatched to a call of a naked person out in public you'd
be like a lot of officers if you thought the matter was amusing. 

You'd probably be wrong-and in the worst of circumstances, dead wrong
... Full Story

Related Force Science Mailbag:
Cops share details of encounters with naked suspects

PoliceOne Safety Tip:

Beware the 'NEW THANG' mentality
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submitted by Gary T. Klugiewicz, PoliceOne Columnist
"Have you ever noticed the way we always depend way too much on our newest
"THANG?", asked Jones. "You know what I mean, the newest law enforcement
cure-all ... Full Story

POLICE MAGAZINE

Homeland Security Secretary Urges Immigration Policy Changes to Safeguard
National Security

Michael Chertoff, homeland security secretary, proposes fighting terrorism by
streamlining his department and tightening border security while allowing more
legal immigrants to enter the country through a guest worker program.

[ Click Here for the Full Story ]


Police Officer Line of Duty Deaths Decreased
An 11-percent decrease in line-of-duty deaths in 2005 compared to the same time
last year can be partly attributed to increased use of bullet-resistant vests, say two
law enforcement groups.

[ Click Here for the Full Story ]
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Subject: Fw: GOD and the Spider

During World War II, a US marine was separated from his unit on a Pacific island.
The fighting had been intense, and in the smoke and the crossfire he had lost touch
with his comrades.


Alone in the jungle, he could hear enemy soldiers coming in his direction.
 

Scrambling for cover, he found his way up a high ridge to several small
caves in the rock.


He realized that once the enemy soldiers looking for him swept up the ridge, they
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would quickly search all the caves and he would be killed
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<>As he waited, he prayed, "Lord, if it be your will, please protect me. Whatever your
will though, I love you and trust you. Amen."
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After praying, he lay quietly listening to the enemy begin to draw close.  He thought,
"Well, I guess the Lord isn't going to help me out of this one." Then he saw a spider
begin to build a web over the front of his cave.
</> <> 

As he watched, listening to the enemy searching for him all the while, the spider
layered strand after strand of web across the opening of the cave.
</> <> 

"Hah, he thought. "What I need is a brick wall and what the Lord has sent me is a
spider web. God does have a sense of humor."
</> <> 

As the enemy drew closer he watched from the darkness of his hideout and could
see them searching one cave after another. As they came to his, he got ready to
make his last stand. To his amazement, however, after glancing in the direction of
his cave, they moved on. Suddenly, he realized that with the spider web over the
entrance, his cave looked as if no one had entered for quite a while. "Lord, forgive
me," prayed the young man. "I had forgotten that in you a spider's web is stronger
than a brick wall."
</> <>

We all face times of great trouble. When we do, it is so easy to forget the victories
that God would work in our lives, sometimes in the most surprising ways. As the
great leader, Nehemiah, reminded the people of Israel when they faced the task
of rebuilding Jerusalem, "In God we will have success!" [Nehemiah 2:20]
</> <> 

And remember: Whatever is happening in your life, in God, a mere spider's web
could becomes a brick wall of protection.
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Principles... those things we find and put to use that always work when cooperated
with.  Hearing, seeing, learning and applying.  Meditating, practicing, training...
Doing that which you know to do... no matter what anyone else does or does not do. 
Being prepared... taking life as it comes and doing the very best you can with it.

These messages are just small bundles of information from which you may learn if
you so desire... and in learning put them to use in daily life.  Buried in all information
are those things called principles that we find and put to use... when rightly learned
and applied principles always work... THEY ALWAYS WORK!


My week just past has required that I apply often those principles that I have learned
and tested in the crucible of experience... my own experience.  Experience is those
things that you know because they happened to and for you.  You may read of the
experiences of other people... but they are just information until you try, use and test
the information in your own laboratory of life by personal use and success.  One of
my sayings is that you do not know a thing until you can retain it, repeat it and apply
it.  Prior to this process you may possess information... but in my vocabulary
information is not knowledge... it is not knowledge until it becomes useful by
experience.  Words... just words... until they work for you... then they become
knowledge.

Each of us occupy a unique place in this world.  Interactions with happenings,
circumstances and people are usually called life.  Life is what you have when you
absorb the lessons learned and apply them as best you can to achieve the best
possible results.  When you are participating you are living... maybe not the way
you want to live... but living nonetheless.  Living is using your full potential to the
best of your ability in any given moment or circumstance... being alive and alert
to stimuli and possibilities... utilizing all facets of everything available to you...
and doing the very best you can with it.

Some people in this world only exist.  They are run over by circumstances and
other people so often that they make as little effort as possible.  They put very little
into it... existing only because the autonomic systems function for some amount of
time without their input.

Peace Keepers by their nature are participators in life to some degree.  They
cannot be Peace Keepers if they do not participate.  Observing, absorbing,
evaluating and applying information.  You may observe for extended periods of time
before action becomes necessary... but you must always be ready to act...
not being ready to act... and/or not acting properly brings more experiences which
turn out to be negative in nature... They always cost something... usually something
we would rather not pay and experience.  How may we avoid the negative lessons?

We avoid those negative lessons that we ourselves cause by being careful to learn
and apply what we have gained in the crucible of experience.  Our experience may
not line up with nor agree with the attitudes and desires of others.  Every person
does not know the same things... even if they have gone through the same
education... even if they have done the same studies... even if they have gone
through the same practical training.  We must all be learners... and sometimes
we must all be teachers... but you cannot teach someone who does not cooperate
with the information received and apply that information to gain experience for
themselves.

In the past two weeks I have conveyed observed information to two physicians who
disputed my evaluations.  I insisted that they run CT scans to prove or disprove the
observations and evaluations.  They could not conceive that I could have enough
experience with medical problems to know how to evaluate and draw conclusions.
The two physicians did not agree with each other nor did they agree with me.  One
scan verified my conclusions as correct.  We have no report on the other scan yet.

Each of you who read these words know some things that you cannot prove to
anyone else... but you know them and you know that you know.  That is why we are
all uniquely different... That is also why life needs so many of us to cooperate
together to get the very best results possible as we resist evil and war with those
who create evil.  We work together in squads, shifts, teams and programs.  All
large function units are comprised of smaller specialized units that function
separately and together... whatever the need... in order to accomplish the very best
possible results.

Every member of the Peace Keeping team (and that includes all of you in the
support systems as well) are vitally important to our way of life.  Peace Keeping
brings together people who do not like each other... would not associate with
each other... and puts us all together in a process of molding us into a functioning,
successful unit.  This is done by receiving us... conveying information to us...
testing us... evaluating us... testing us some more... putting us through practice
sessions... evaluating us some more... and finally we arrive at an event called
graduation from the basic training course.  That is followed by still more training
and evaluating in on the job performance.

Then we become basically useful to the whole unit... but we must still keep hearing,
seeing, evaluating and applying in an ongoing basis for the rest of our lives and for
the rest of our careers.  We learn to function both alone and as a member of a team,
whatever the demand of the moment happens to be.

YOU ARE ALL PART OF THE MARVELOUS TEAM THAT COMPRISES PEACE
KEEPING... PAST, PRESENT AND FUTURE.  MY COMMANDER-IN-CHIEF AND
I APPRECIATE YOUR SERVICE AND WE ARE ETERNALLY GRATEFUL.  YOU
ANSWERED A CALL TO BE ASSIMILATED INTO HIS TEAM OF MINISTERS OF
RIGHTNESS IN THIS WORLD AND WE THANK YOU FOR THE RESPONSE AND
THE WORK.

BE CAREFUL WHEREVER YOU ARE... ON DUTY OR OFF... WHEREVER YOUR
BATTLEFIELD.  WE NEED YOU AND WE DO NOT WANT TO HAVE TO DO
WITHOUT YOU.  BE CAREFUL ALSO TO TAKE GREAT CARE OF AND FOR
YOU... EVERY FACET OF YOU... AND ESPECIALLY THE SPIRITUAL FACET OF
YOU.  LEAVE NO PART OUT OF YOUR GREAT CARE OF AND FOR YOU.  BE
ALWAYS ALERT, WATCHFUL, SUSPICIOUS AND WARY. 

ASK THE GREAT CREATOR TO GIVE TO YOU WHAT YOU NEED FOR EACH
DAY THAT ONLY HE CAN FURNISH... AND TO GUIDE YOU SO THAT YOU WILL
NOT MISS ANYTHING THAT IS YOUR PART TO DISCOVER AND PUT TO USE...
EVEN GIVING YOU HIS EXTRA SPECIAL SENSES THAT DEVELOP TO KEEP
YOU SAFE AND SUCCESSFUL AS YOU LIVE.

AS IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN... SO IT STILL IS...

"VICTORIOUS WARRIORS WIN FIRST...
AND THEN GO TO WAR,
WHILE DEFEATED WARRIORS GO TO WAR FIRST...
AND THEN SEEK TO WIN." 
Sun tzu

ONLY LIVE PEACE KEEPERS SEE THE VICTORY!!!


WITH THE DEEPEST OF APPRECIATION AND RESPECT...
BE BLESSED (A CONDITION TO BE ENVIED)...
BE SUCCESSFUL... BE SAFE...
Chaplain D. R. Staton (Don - C1) VBPD, VSP ALUMNI,
RETIRED Officer, Instructor, Senior Chaplain, Director of Chaplains
757-431-2190, chpln1@verizon.net
3709 Beacon Lane, Virginia Beach, VA 23452
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